I really hate to make this my third post about the redhead who has a crush on me at work who I am not interested in (see my the first and second post) but I am! It's my final though. I pinky promise!
So this week has been hectic ... sorry I've been slack posting. I'm going to make this quick cause its Friday night and it's drinking time!
Ok so this week I've worked with _____ 3 times and its gradually started freaking me out more and more. I was interrogated by my manager who asked me if I felt uncomfortable (she had noticed this extra attention I was receiving) I lied and said I didn't feel uncomfortable, only because I didn't want to make it awkward if she said something to him.
Anyway I had to ask him to do me a favour and grab me another vodka bottle or something and he says to me 'only if you give me a blowjob' *jaw drops*. So I slapped him! I slapped him like a girl who has just been called a whore!
Just kidding I didnt slap him. I nervously laughed it off and didn't say anything. Inside I was like 'aaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!'. I mentioned it to one of the other bar staff and they we're like 'you've got to draw a line and stop this if you're not interested'. I didn't think of it any more that night. But did worry if he was being serious or just fooling around.
*skips two days ahead*
I arrive at work tonight and my manager comes up to me and says 'Andrew, you don't have to worry about _______ anymore he no longer works here. At this point I feel sick that I've had someone fired and my immediate reaction is to ask if it was related to me. I got no response. NOTHING! Just a simple 'thats all I can say he no longer works here'.
I feel terrible. I should have worked things out before it meant him losing his job! I don't have his number so I can't contact him to see if he's ok and to explain myself. But I don't want to contact him because he might think I care for him more than a friend. I don't think there is really more I can do? I wonder if I will ever know what really happened? Maybe he quit? No one said he was fired. I was just told 'he no longer works here'. Maybe he was confronted about the issue and was embarrassed and quit? I tried to get more out of the manager but that's all I could get.
I know it's not my fault (it's hard being so irresistible) but I can't help but think I could of done things differently.Oh well. I can't change what's already happened.
I'm about to start my second drink for the evening! Maybe I feel better about things after a few more.
Still nicknameless!
P.S. I heard the funniest phrase today. Lol someone said to me ' I'm hungrier than I Nun's vagina!' Politically incorrect but I couldn't stop laughing.
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9 comments:
Oh Andrew!
Only you can know whether he was just being friendly and camp and a bit outrageous, as a lot of 'out' gay people can be - or whether he really was stalking you, in effect.
If the latter then good riddance. If not . . .
if you hadnt actually complained about him, they're unlikely to have got rid of him just coz they perceived that his actions were making you feel uncomfortable.
more likely that he did something else that got him fired. not giving the reason is std practice these days.
either way, don't worry about it. let's hope your next workmate is just as keen but with mutual interest.
3 posts about 1 guy? you would catch me doing that! lol
torchy!
and after all that coaching on flirting, it ends like this!
pretty sure its for the best, 'tho.
he did it to himself-- dont worry. it's not let you meant to get him fired (that is, IF it has anything to do with you)
look on the brightside... at least guys want you... lol
It isn't your fault that he no longer works there.
In the U.S. what he was doing is technically sexual harassment. It (and it's a real if) he was fired for it, he brought it on himself.
Andrew
you have to have a safe work place too. and you said it was obvious to others so the bosses cant allow that to happen to you or anyone else at the workplace
he was wrong by the way and you should not feel guilty
take care nad be safe
bob
um, actually i disagree regarding this.
whether he was sexually harassing you or not, you should at least told him first about it, instead of the manager.
to him, it may appear to just be playful banter.
it's best to call him and clarify this issue.
Lol I thought you meant your nickname was "Nick-Nameless" lol I know how awkward shit like this can be! Although the guy whos making it awkward is still there! :S
B xo
i don't know how things work down there, but where i work, if person A and person B are having a convo and person C overhears and thinks that the convo is offensive, sexually harassing, or inappropriate towards either A or B, person C can complain on that personas behalf and start all kinds of shit. crazy, but true. given that your other co-workers notice he liked you before you did, maybe that's what happened here. i wouldn't feel too guilty, coz you did nothing wrong. hope everything works out.
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